Video games are meant to be challenging. They are based on overcoming obstacles. Why? Because it makes it so much more satisfying when it’s all said and done.
The same principle applies to life in general.
What would a video game be without any challenges? It would be boring and absolutely pointless.
Would you play Super Mario Bros if all you did was leisurely walk to the right the whole time with no obstacles? Hell no! What’s the fun in that?
Would you enjoy playing Pokemon if you had unlimited master balls and rare candies? (I hope you got that one haha). It’s all about the journey, baby.
Think about movies too. Just about all movies are based on overcoming challenges and the progression of the main character(s).
We develop through struggle.
We need darkness to appreciate light.
We need clouds and rain to appreciate sunshine.
Everything is a learning experience.
Every situation is an opportunity.
Learn, move on, and persevere.
“The universe tends to unfold as it should.” -Random guy from Harold and Kumar
But seriously, that’s an awesome quote.
Whatever you’re going through at the moment is what you need most right now (in this game we call life) and an opportunity to better yourself and grow.
Here’s a personal example. I packed on the infamous freshman 15 (lbs) in my first 4 months of college. This was a major wake-up call for me. But instead of getting depressed about it or ignoring it, I used it as an opportunity. I started educating myself on health and fitness. And more importantly, I applied what I learned. I worked out consistently and made better food choices. This strengthened my body and mind, and helped me shed the excess fat I had accumulated. This has not only given me a plethora of knowledge and experience in health and fitness, but also created a snowball effect of successes in every aspect of my life since then. It was exactly what I needed, and I took advantage of the challenge presented to me. Overcoming that challenge made me a stronger person and greatly helped in developing my character.
“What you call a setback, I call a challenge, if I fall I know I’ll get back, it’s all a balance.” -Crooked I
So embrace your challenges. Embrace your difficulties. They are learning experiences on your way to progression and building a stronger version of yourself. Because life would be so boring if we just coasted through.