Nothing is truly separate. Nothing exists in isolation.
All things, events and people are intimately interconnected. In essence, all is one and one is all. Oneness IS.
This concept of oneness is thrown around a lot, especially in “spiritual” communities. It sounds a bit idealistic, right? One of those “woo-woo” theories with no validity. But after approaching the concept of oneness from different perspectives, I’ve found it to be an all-pervading truth.
This is not about blindly repeating what some so-called “guru” said about oneness. I aim to break it down into digestible pieces for you to metabolize in your own unique way. This article gives you a road map to uncover truth for yourself, because oneness is just an abstract concept until you truly understand and experience it.
I always knew that everything was connected in some way, but in a superficial way, without intrinsically understanding it. Oneness made sense to me as an idea, but I never fully grasped the immense truth and profundity of it until recently. I merely understood the interconnection of everything in the same way that one views a place on a map. Sure, you can envision what it might look like, but you never really understand it until you see the actual place.
“If you wish to make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe.” – Carl Sagan
In one of Alan Watts’ mind-blowing lectures, he discusses that there really is no such thing as cause and effect as separate events. Watts suggests that everything is in fact one event and that there are no clear boundaries between events.
Think about it… When did your life start? Did it begin when you came out of the womb? No. As a fetus? Nope. When the sperm met the egg? As a sperm cell? As an egg? As your father or mother? As your grandparents? There really is no definitive boundary. And the man-made boundaries we create are merely arbitrary lines drawn to please our ego.
The butterfly effect illustrates the interconnectedness of events as well:
“The butterfly effect is the sensitive dependence on initial conditions in which a small change in one state of a deterministic nonlinear system can result in large differences in a later state. The name of the effect, coined by Edward Lorenz, is derived from the metaphorical example of the details of a hurricane (exact time of formation, exact path taken) being influenced by minor perturbations such as the flapping of the wings of a distant butterfly several weeks earlier.” (Wikipedia)
This is why we use the phrase “chain of events.” Everything is intimately linked. There is no link of the chain which stands alone. It is all connected to the chain of existence. (And, as a side note regarding chains, the concept of time often shackles us.) So I would think of it more as a web. Everyone and everything is a strand. All connected, radiating out in a harmonious pattern, spun by the most beneficent force, not a spider with 8 legs, but a force embodied by the sideways 8; the essence of infinity.
I recently came across this great story from That Buddha Guy that succinctly summarizes just how interrelated everything is:
Holding up a sheet of paper he asked, “Do you see a cloud in this paper?” No one responded. Again he asked, “Do you see a cloud in this paper?” “You must see a cloud in this paper,” he continued, “because without a cloud there is no rain. Without rain there is no tree. Without a tree there is no paper.” He then asked, “Do you see a steel mill?” “You must see a steel mill because without the mill there is no steel. Without steel there is no axe or saw to cut the tree. No tree cut down, no paper.” The audience was beginning to understand his point. Chuckling he asked, “Do you see Wheaties?” “Loggers work hard and need a good breakfast. No loggers, no cut trees, no paper.” What was the point he made? First, nothing exists independent of outside conditions. Second, no single component is more important than another. These two points, along with the idea of impermanence, are the basis of Buddhism.
Everything is intimately connected. Don’t underestimate the power of your actions or the impact of your life. We’re all unique strands within the beautiful tapestry of infinity.
First of all, I want to thank Lupe Fiasco for creating a masterpiece, as well as Genius for annotating these extremely intricate and deep lyrics.
I don’t write about music too often here, but this album completely blew me away…
“Tetsuo & Youth” is a holistic depiction of life and death, seamlessly weaving themes of spirituality, religion, reincarnation, struggle, freedom and, as the title implies, youth. All of this is subtly and contextually coated with the concept of life being akin to a video game. Lupe’s lyricism is as skillful as I’ve ever heard. Every line is loaded with complex rhyme schemes, alliteration, double entendres, hidden meanings, clever punchlines and eccentric references. The lyrics are masterfully crafted, leaving the listener deciphering deeper meaning with each listen. The exquisitely adept rapping is silhouetted by beautiful soundscapes, which artfully match the ever-evolving emotional tone of the album.
The musical experience of “Tetsuo & Youth” is transformative, as it speaks to everyone in unique ways and sheds perspective on your own experience of this journey we call life.
The cover artwork for the album is an original painting by Lupe entitled “Man Eating Tiger” (Is it a man eating a tiger? Or a man-eating-tiger?) Like the album itself, it’s a constantly shifting depiction of life and death, with multiple meanings and layers. Here’s what Lupe himself has to say about it: “For me as the guy who painted it. I see a tiger descending into the body of a man, being consumed. You see the inside of man. But I also see a tiger in the process of ripping a man to pieces. A very chaotic scene of violence. The meaning of this painting is constantly shifting and changing. I see death and life and a constant pursuit of these two goals.”
The Title: Tetsuo & Youth
Some more hints from Lupe:
“For me, Tetsuo sounds cool. You can hate him for what he’s done, but it’s not just him being an asshole. How that relates to me as a person — you can take that however you want, but it was more like, let me get to the emotion of that misguided anger and make this sound like a song.”
“I wanted to just write about youth and children and their experiences cause I feel like I’m a child. I miss my youth, I wish I had a different path when I was younger […] If people want to know what the ‘Youth’ meant in the title, it’s in the interludes — those kids and the absence of kids; youth and the absence of youth.”
There are four interlude tracks on the album, for each of the four seasons. Lupe refers to them as “sonic palette cleanses.” These interludes are brief pieces of classical music accommodated by the sound of children (or lack thereof, in the case of “Winter”). Each season has a unique feel, both in terms of the music and the background sound of youth.
The album is a story, but it’s also a story in reverse. It’s revelatory to listen to it from front-to-back, then back-to-front, as I’ll soon explain.
The album’s story isn’t so much an individual story, but more like a skillfully knitted story of the seasons of life. It’s like a tapestry of existence, a “mural”, if you will (see what I did there?).
Listening to the album in the forward direction, Tetsuo & Youth opens with the “Summer” intro. Then immediately kicks into high gear with “Mural”, a truly momentous, lyrical journey. It’s like a soul hyped up to incarnate into the world. Lupe maintains a certain youthful exuberance in “Blur My Hands” and “Dots & Lines.” But “Dots & Lines” could also represent him losing his freedom (the dots and lines of contracts), because it is followed by the “Fall” interlude. “Fall” seems to symbolize a fall from grace, which carries from “Prisoner 1 & 2″ all the way through to “Madonna.” “Winter” is akin to the ‘dark night of the soul’ and the album tosses the listener into the dangerously chaotic environments of “Chopper” and “Deliver.” “Madonna” is interwoven with hope and hopelessness; birth and death. “Adoration of the Magi” incorporates almost every theme of the album. Is it about birth? Is it about death? It’s definitely a short journey into the totality of the human experience, dipped in religious references while simultaneously transcending the downfalls of organized religion. The last full song is “They.Resurrect.Over.New” which is about reincarnation from the perspective of playing a video game. It leaves the listener questioning whether it’s really the end, or a new beginning. The album closes (or opens?) with “Spring” which is basically the aural interpretation of pure, youthful joy.
While the forward-moving story plays out like a fall from grace, with the opportunity reincarnate and try again, listening to it in reverse is that new attempt within the video game of life.
Lupe hints at this multiple times throughout the album…
In “Blur My Hands” he says…
“So you starting at the end, that’s the part where you begin I skip the bullshit so we can start it where we win Yeah, spoiler alert I can hear you all saying “boy you’re a jerk” But it’s cool though, know we gotta rule yo Get in, then we win and do it all again, ho”
And in “Body of Work” he hints at it again…
“Realize my begin when I find where my end is.”
There are no coincidences when it comes to Lupe Fiasco. He’s absolutely meticulous with his compositions and packs them with as much meaning as he can muster.
The Journey Back Home
If you listen to the album in reverse, it is positively mind-blowing. It’s essentially incarnating into the video game of life and achieving ultimate victory. The journey back home starts with “Spring” and insinuates reincarnation with the “proceed to the next level” theme of “They.Resurrect.Over.New.” Next, the narrative moves on to “Adoration of the Magi” which heavily plays upon the themes of birth and infancy. Then it proceeds through the journey of life before climaxing with “Mural.” “Mural” is like the culmination of everything, the final boss of the video game. That’s why Lupe ends “Mural” by emphatically stating “defeat samsara, achieve nirvana and brilliance.”
A Brief Song-by-Song Breakdown When Listening to the Album in Reverse Order (AKA The Journey Back Home):
“Spring” – This outro, or intro in this case, is utterly joyful. When used as the intro, it gives a heavenly vibe (or however you want to describe a utopian reality existing beyond this one). So it’s like hanging out in a blissful wonderland before you jump into the challenging video game of life.
“They.Resurrect.Over.New” – Heavily plays on video game themes and reincarnation. It’s also a turbulent swirl of altered states of consciousness and mythology amidst the unfathomable depth of the universe (or multi-verse). The song almost gives you the feeling of what it what be like to enter this reality; a chaotic blend of confusion and excited confidence. And the fact that Ab-Soul has the final verse adds to the mystery. Are him and Lupe blending identities? Is it hinting at multiple people reincarnating in groups? It adds an even greater enigmatic quality to the album.
“Adoration of the Magi” – The term “adoration of the magi” traditionally refers to the nativity of Jesus in art, surrounded by the 3 magi. This song is conceptual brilliance, blending religion (while constructively criticizing it as well), youth, loss of innocence, video games and reincarnation intermixed with the reality of the world today. (See my breakdown of some of the lyrics below. It’s mind-blowing.)
The middle of the album incorporates the bittersweetness of worldly struggle. The listener incarnates into a whirlwind of harsh environments, which is the equivalent of playing the video game on expert level.
“Madonna [And Other Mothers in the Hood]” – It’s a swirl of life, death, birth and struggle with a calling for the divine feminine. Because it blends multiple themes (like so many songs on Tetsuo & Youth), it could be the end of one story, yet the start of another.
“Deliver” – This song throws the listener into the grim reality of the ghetto. Lupe draws upon motifs of food and religion to paint a captivating, yet bleak, picture. And both motifs are incorporated in the chorus. “Pizza man don’t come here no more… deliver.” (Drawing upon the common Christian phrase “deliver us from evil.”)
“Chopper” – Chopper is the only song on the album with multiple guest verses. It feels like an act in a play where different characters step to the front of the stage to recite their soliloquy. “Chopper” is the testimony of toughened souls ‘playing the video game on expert level’. To give it even more of a thematic, character-driven vibe, the song starts with a voice saying “Ladies and gentleman, Lupe Fiasco.” Chopper is slang for both a gun and a helicopter, so it’s like going into a war zone. And it definitely feels like one.
“Winter” – The most foreboding of the interludes. The sad classical tune with the absence of any sounds of youth makes it a bit creepy.
“No Scratches” – A slow, emotional song about relationships that plays upon the metaphor of a car crash. It advises “to walk away with no scratches“ from a dysfunctional relationship “before we hit a wall.”
“Little Death” – This song is a plethora of parallel themes seamlessly laid atop one another. Sex (La petite mort), killing animals, ego death, the death of childlike innocence, the justice system, the Universe’s cycles and the death of creativity within people.
One line that stands out to me is “And more mercifully murdered Pisces” which incorporates both the topic of killing animals and universal cycles. In terms of astrology, the age of Pisces is coming to an end and we’re entering the age of Aquarius (hence “murdered Pisces”). This is also something that Lupe references multiple times throughout the album.
“Body of Work” – Subtly about hip-hop, with so many great lines, references and rhyme schemes. Some of Lupe’s best technical rapping of the album is on this track.
“Prisoner 1 & 2″ – This song is a mini-epic, divided into two parts. Prisoner 1 is from the prisoners’ point of view. The bowling metaphor at the end of the first verse is just superb, and he does it while simultaneously painting a captivating image of prison life. Prisoner 2 is from the guards’ perspective, who are just as much prisoners as the prisoners themselves. Both are colorful descriptions of this ominous reality. In narrating from the sides of both prisoners and prison guards, Lupe emphasizes a crucial point… Even though people appear dualistic on the surface, we all have a connection point. And everyone shares a lot in common on a deep level.
Also, the acronyms of the chorus are fantastic:
+ “LOVE is Looking Over Various Errors”
– “HATE is Habitually Accelerating Terror, Everywhere, but the mural.” (with the mural reference, he’s referring back to the song “Mural.” I think he may also be alluding that hate can’t touch the collective that we’re all a part of. It can’t reach our true essence.)
And LOVE being Looking Over Various Errors is a call for a new way to deal with morality, because it’s obvious that privatized prisons (with a ridiculously disproportionate number of minorities confined within their walls) aren’t working out for us. It reminds me of this story that’s been floating around social media about a particular African tribe: (here’s where I saw it)
When someone does something hurtful and wrong, they take the person to the center of town, and the entire tribe comes and surrounds him. For two days they’ll tell the man every good thing he has ever done. The tribe believes that every human being comes into the world as GOOD, each of us desiring safety, love, peace, happiness. But sometimes in the pursuit of those things people make mistakes. The community sees misdeeds as a cry for help. They band together for the sake of their fellow man to hold him up, to reconnect him with his true Nature, to remind him who he really is, until he fully remembers the truth from which he’d temporarily been disconnected: “I AM GOOD”
“Fall” – When moving through the album in reverse, “Fall” is a time of change. It could be looked at as death of the ego-self and the clearing of all negativity.
“Dots & Lines” is a song of freedom and spiritual growth. ‘Beautiful’ sums up this composition, complete with references to sacred geometry and the intrinsic conncectedness of everything. Lupe also discusses how the natural cycles of the universe override anything man-made that isn’t in harmony with those inherent principles. Sacred geometry is mentioned in the chorus and these concepts are also discussed in lines such as:
“The applause and patience of the laws in nature Override lies and the laws of nations”
“Sun positions overcome traditions”
“Where the golden means, so the overseer gets overseen”
The golden mean is the golden ratio, also known as the Fibonacci Sequence (or Fibonacci Spiral), which is observed in both the macrocosms and the microcosms of the universe (as above, so below). These geometric principles “oversee” man-made reality. So if an “overseer” creates a system not in harmony with these principles, it will create dysfunction and inevitably crumble. One example of this is the concept of time. Everything moves in a spiral pattern (the Fibonacci spiral) and in cycles, yet we measure time in a linear fashion. That’s why our (man-made) concept of time causes so much anxiety for most people. (Read more about the concept of time in this post.)
“Blur My Hands” is almost like a victory song. It’s about transmuting hate into love, and pokes fun at road rage. What’s the best response to someone giving you the finger? “Yeah that’s cool, cause I think you’re number one too.” Brilliant.
The title, along with hinting at the censorship of the middle finger, could be referencing blurring the hands of a clock; signifying the transcendence of time and becoming eternal. Lupe’s opening line is “take TIME to learn me…”
“Mural” is the climax, the culmination, the final boss. It’s a lyrical epic, through the magical mystery of infinite possibility.
Concluding the song with “defeat samsara, achieve nirvana and brilliance” is the ultimate happy ending. And then it fades into the interlude of “Summer” to allow the listener to soak in that state of nirvana.
Breakdowns of some of the most profound lines:
Meditate until there’s no mind Decorate me with shine till I go blind BDSM dominated it with no bind Safe word is don’t stop, both or don’t go no times
These lines are far deeper than just meditation, wearing jewelry and bondage/discipline/sadomasochism. And there’s a reason why the “safe words” for the self-imposed bondage are so confusing…
Two scenarios are depicted here. One being someone leaving this world, and another entering this world.
Picture an ancient Egyptian pharaoh, or high priest preparing for death. Meditating until they merge with all of existence, their bodies adorned with jewelry for the afterlife and they might even still be alive during their death preparations. So they may have entered a tomb while still alive, with no way out.
The other image that these lines create are that of a soul incarnating into the world. Being in the peaceful stillness of deep meditation, then coming out into the bright lights of the world as an infant emerging from the darkness of the womb. And spiritual beings choosing to come to this world of suffering and extreme limitation are subjecting themselves to a spiritual form of BDSM. But growth only happens when we overcome obstacles. So by subjecting itself to limitation, a spiritual being can continue to grow. And the video game (being in a human body) inherently comes with amnesia, so that’s why the “safe words” are purposefully confusing. Because the human experience wouldn’t be fulfilling if we already knew everything. It’s meaningful because we’re constantly learning and growing.
Adoration of the Magi
Quiet is kept like Rosicrucians meet Cosa Nostras on Oprah’s sofa With both controllers Watchin’ Gazans and Ashkenazzis ride roller coasters Say yeah Yeah, lots of options, now up is down, two player Now A is jump and B is punch You seein’ somethin’ that weren’t there To find friendliness in a nemesis, it’s a old test 3 buttons, see somethin’ That’s emphasis on genesis
Quiet is kept like Rosicrucians meet Cosa Nostras on Oprah’s sofa = Secret societies hiding in plain sight.
With both controllers = Secret societies (mentioned in the line above), operating from behind the scenes act as the “controllers” to manipulate conflicts (see the next line). This is also the opening to a video game reference, comparing life to a video game.
Watchin’ Gazans and Ashkenazzis ride roller coasters = Those “controllers” manipulated the Israel-Palestine conflict from behind the scenes. Riding roller coasters might be referring to the classic Bill Hicks stand-up about how life is just a ride.
now up is down = Inversion pervades our society. Also keeps with the video game reference.
“Just look at us. Everything is backwards, everything is upside down. Doctors destroy health, lawyers destroy justice, psychiatrists destroy minds, scientists destroy truth, major media destroys information, religions destroy spirituality and governments destroy freedom.” – Michael Ellner
two player = A reference to the concept of duality. And still keeping the video game theme.
Now A is jump and B is punch = Along with saying “two player”, talking about playing the Sega Genesis video game Double Dragon (Is this a reptilian reference too?)
You seein’ somethin’ that weren’t there = A world of illusion
To find friendliness in a nemesis, it’s a old test = People allow themselves to be divided because of the old testament, when we should all unite as one. “Old test” could also be referring to life as a test, like Killah Priest in the song B.I.B.L.E.
3 buttons, see somethin’ = Gain a higher perspective using your third eye and transcend the meaningless conflict. And this of course continues the video game theme.
That’s emphasis on genesis = Nicely wraps up both the religious and video game references. And acts as a call for a new beginning.
The chorus of “Adoration of the Magi” is ingenious as well: Why you ready to die? You just a baby Why them tears up under your eyes? You just a baby Keep your head up in the sky, you just a baby Quit chasing money, never mind, you just a baby Why you wanna be born again? You just a baby Why you playing in the streets? You just a baby
The hook incorporates the continuous themes of youth, innocence, life, death, birth and reincarnation. And I’ll let these images explain how clever the wordplay is…
Courtesy of Rap Genius
Body of Work
God is great, but it’s snakes on my soul plane
There are four references here, along with alluding to snakes in the music industry (because the song is about hip-hop).
1. Biblical reference
Referencing two movies:
2. Snakes on a Plane
3. Soul Plane
4. Referring to the theory of reptilian entities inhabiting the astral (soul) plane.
Yeah… Lupe dives deep.
Dots & Lines
And your reflection is your connection to more collections of more directions and paths If your reflection is a mask, then you’re reflective of mass To see yourself just look at me then split your reflection in half
With the first line, Lupe is saying to look within (your reflection), as that is “your connection to more collections of more directions and paths.” Self-mastery is the gateway to enlightenment.
In the second line, he’s saying that if you’re not authentic, or you’re entire identity is your ego (mask), then you’re merely reflecting what everyone else is doing; groupthink, sheep/herd mentality and succumbing to peer pressure when we’re all really unique individuals. Also, mass not only refers to the majority, but to organized religion as well (whose followers tend to blindly follow everything).
To see yourself just look at me then split your reflection in half – This is hinting at us all being aspects of each other and intimately connected. He refers to himself as “your reflection” which is quite interesting. Some quantum physics experiments point towards reality being a projection of our consciousness; so imagine a massive, ultra-realistic version of those online, multi-player video games. That may be life. So in that sense “you” are a reflection of “me” and “I” am a reflection of “you.” And if you really get down to it, we’re all unique parts of the same “mural.” And speaking of which…
Are we apps or are we bodies filled with apparitions? Operating applications, stuck inside an Apple prison
Questioning if we’re just biological technology, or technology being operated by some higher consciousness. Apps are usually used to describe applications within Apple products, like computers or iPhones. He’s also asking if we’re bodies being piloted by something non-physical, like a ghost in the machine. And then, Apple prison refers back to the company Apple as well as the story of Adam and Eve, who was tempted by the snake to eat the apple. So Lupe is questioning if that story (or whatever that story is actually talking about, because it’s allegorical) caused humanity to be trapped in a prison, or matrix (hint, hint).
Rewrite history, liberty needs a better bell Maybe harder irons and carbon fibers that never fail Smarter science mixed with a odd alliance of fairy tale
Obviously referring to the liberty bell and how history is written by the winners of wars, with hidden agendas. We need a new beginning, a better way of doing things. “Harder irons” = stronger bonds. And carbon fibers are long, thin strands that collectively form an immensely strong material. We, as individuals, need to be like these carbon fibers, to form a strong collective. This intertwinement of fibers also hints at something akin to… (guess what?) a mural.
Smarter science mixed with a odd alliance of fairy tale – In saying “smarter science” Lupe is advocating applying science to areas that benefit us. Instead of building weapons and technological militarization, we should be using science to explore the world around us and improve ourselves. “Odd alliance of fairy tale” mentions “Fairy Tale” which is an anime series with wizards, dragon slayers…etc. So Lupe is saying the world would be a better place if we used smart science, blended with some healthy mysticism.
Simple as a Buddhist monk in a temple standing in some heel groove with the abbot, practicing stillness Real still til he realizes his realness Defeat samsara achieve nirvana and brilliance
That first line creates a clear image of a Buddhist monk in a temple. A heel groove is an indentation made by standing in the same place (usually on a wooden floor) for a prolonged period of time. But it could also be a homonym for “heal groove” implying that the music of silence is healing.
Real still til he realizes his realness – Our realness (who we really are) can be found in the stillness of meditation.
Defeat samsara achieve nirvana and brilliance – Samsara is the continuous cycle of reincarnation, and achieving nirvana breaks that cycle, reuniting us with our true essence.
Is there a better way to end a song!?
Bringing It All Together
The messages that Lupe is conveying with Tetsuo & Youth, in my opinion, are that life is like a video game. Beginnings and ends are blurred together within the mysterious mural of existence. Everyone will struggle, and struggle is inevitable. But it’s up to you to overcome the obstacles in your path and transmute fear into love. It’s up to you to absorb the useful spiritual concepts, while transcending the aspects of religious control. Ultimately, it’s up to you to find inner peace in the stillness of who you really are; to “defeat samsara, achieve nirvana and brilliance.”
– Stevie P!
PS – I also made a video about 5 life lessons learned from Tetsuo & Youth. Check it out…
Stevie P’s note: This is a post by Dean Hurtt, and originally appeared on his website at www.deanhurtt.com. Dean explained the enigmatic concept of soul mates in such a succinct and straightforward tone, so I had to share it. Also, the analogy of us being leaves to a tree was an “Aha!” moment for me. Enjoy!
I often hear these terms thrown around rather haphazardly, and I wanted to clarify what my understanding of “soul groups,” “soul mates,” and “soul twins” are.
Perhaps by just hearing these terms you already have an intuitive understanding of what they mean. It is actually quite logical, and there is a hierarchy in the terms.
An analogy might be useful to start with, so that you can more easily picture how this whole process operates. Imagine a tree with leaves and branches—this is how your soul operates.
At the beginning, there was no differentiation between any of us; we were One, with a capital ‘O.’ Then we started to split from God, Source, or whatever you want to call it. From there we kept dividing like branches on a tree, until we finally became our present Self, which for this metaphor is going to be a leaf.
Now, back to the original terms I introduced at the beginning of this blog; let us start with soul twins, also known as “twin flames.” This is term that many people aren’t aware of, and is usually confused with soul mates.
There is only one soul twin for each of us, whereas there are multiple soul mates. The soul group is the largest of the three, and if you have known anyone in your life for longer than 15 minutes or so, and felt a connection to, they are more than likely in your soul group.
Soul mates are closer, and these are usually your friends, family, and coworkers. Finally, there is the soul twin, which people are usually the most concerned about finding.
I would like to reiterate that all of this is my current understanding of these terms, and I am not claiming this is the final definition for any of these terms. If you have a different understanding, please let me know by commenting below!
There are a few other things I would like to bring up while I’m on the topic of soul mates and such. Your soul twin is not going to make your life complete. I can’t possibly stress this enough. If you are searching for something outside yourself, you won’t find it until you realize you are already complete as you are, and don’t need anyone to fulfill your life.
In fact, you likely won’t be able to find your soul twin until you find happiness within. It is a paradox, that what you are looking for won’t appear until you realize you’ve had it the entire time.
This isn’t always the case, however, because it is possible to find your soul twin while you are still in internal conflict. When this happens, they will likely become one of your worst enemies, because they are reflecting back all the qualities you refuse to accept in yourself.
Another possibility is that your soul twin isn’t even incarnated with you on the Earth right now. You generally don’t find your soul twin actually, because all of us enjoy incarnating with different people, creating new and exciting lives that make our souls rich with experience.
Wouldn’t it become boring around the hundredth lifetime if we always kept coming back with the exact same people? Everyone is different in this regard, because some people like consistency, but others like variety.
A good test for you to tell if you generally have the same people in your lifetimes is if you enjoy watching the same movie, or reading the same book, over-and-over again. If you enjoy new things more often than not, then it’s likely your soul likes to change things up as well.
Nevertheless, even if your soul twin is here with you on Earth, it doesn’t mean they will be your romantic partner. Your soul twin can be a family member, or just a dear friend.
They may stick around for the rest of your life once you’ve found them, or they may only be in your life for a day. There are no hard-and-fast rules for these things, because we are essentially making it up as we go along in life.
Hopefully this brief overview cleared up some of the common misconceptions about soul mates.
I am interested to hear your take on these things though, so please feel free to comment…
Really think about it. Contemplate what your idea of complete freedom is.
To give yourself a better idea, ask yourself the following three questions…
Would I be living the way I’m living if money were no object? Would I be living the way I’m living if I was uninfluenced by the opinions of others? Would I be living the way I’m living if I had no fears?
Chances are, if you’re playing the role of a human on planet Earth, you answered “no” to all three.
So this means that in almost every sense, we’re actually quite far from true freedom. Considering that you’re reading this, you’re probably not in physical slavery, so that’s a good start. But what about your mind? What about your behaviors? What about your beliefs? What about your lifestyle? Are they really your own? For the vast majority of people, (yes, even “privileged” “first-worlders”) all of those aspects of their life and sense of self are in bondage. And most don’t even realize it.
“None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
The more cruel and extreme the slavery, the shorter lived it tends to be. Physical slavery has a finite lifespan because people are all-too-aware of their oppression. If people are blatantly repressed, their uprisal is inevitable. The human will is driven by a deep-seated yearning for liberation. If that willpower hasn’t been buried by deception, trauma and conditioning, there is absolutely nothing that can stand in its way. The many heroes who courageously rose up against (physical) slavery in America are a testament to this.
Mental slavery, however, is more subtle; more insidious. Why? Because in this predicament, people are conditioned to love their servitude, without even grasping the subliminal subterfuge of their subjugation.
“A really efficient totalitarian state would be one in which the all-powerful executive of political bosses and their army of managers control a population of slaves who do not have to be coerced, because they love their servitude.” – Aldous Huxley
Psychological slavery can go on indefinitely, until it’s exposed. And that makes it uniquely dangerous.
“Like everyone else you were born into bondage. Into a prison that you cannot taste or see or touch. A prison for your mind.” – Morpheus (The Matrix)
We’re like dogs with shock collars. Distinctly better off than dogs in cages. But there is an invisible fence which contains us, shocking us into submission when we reach a certain perimeter. Our invisible fence consists of fear, comfort zones, money, time, the opinions of others, limiting belief systems…etc. In terms of the physical and mental aspects of life, we’re more like free-range than truly free.
The average “first-world” nation can be likened to a 300-pound man in a room filled with 500-pound people. Sure, he’s better off than the rest, but he’s still far from being healthy. But because his only reference points are those more obese than he is, he may hold the delusional belief that he’s an exemplar of fitness.
It’s both naïve and short-sighted to think that we’re truly free under this current paradigm. What is your ideal world? Does it look anything like the one you’re living in? This is not to say that we should hide in the asylum of ungrateful entitlement. We need to be grateful for the freedoms we do enjoy, but never complacent in our quest for true liberation.
Just as Harriet Tubman did, we must use our freedoms to help others achieve theirs, moving the collective towards total, mind/body/spirit, emancipation.
The Freedom Paradox
Here’s the good news…
On a deep, intrinsic level, we are always free, no matter the circumstance. Even when someone is physically shackled, at their very core they are still free.
As humans, if we do not find liberation physically, we find it mentally. If we do not find liberation mentally, we find it spiritually. This inherent freedom cannot be taken away.
“When I discover who I am, I’ll be free.” – Ralph Ellison
We are all unique expressions of infinite possibility. Our inner-most nature is beyond any confines. And absolutely nothing can take that away from us, even if we are physically or mentally enslaved. People such as Victor E. Frankl, who survived the Holocaust, are shining examples of this…
“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms — to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” – Victor E. Frankl
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” – Victor E. Frankl
True freedom is beyond the ego. Beyond fear, beyond judgment and beyond the opinions of others. It is what we are left with when we reacquaint with our deepest essence.
“Look well into thyself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if thou wilt always look.” – Marcus Aurelius
Though there are control systems intent on programming us to exhibit predictable, robotic responses… Though many get manipulated by the divide and conquer agenda….. Though injustice still rears its ugly head… Though the world may seem completely insane at times… Remember, you have the choice in every situation. And nothing can take that away from you.
Here are 8 solutions to the subtly insidious “modern slavery” you may, unknowingly or knowingly, find yourself in:
1. Think for yourself- Free your mind. Explore any and every idea. The world is an idea playground. What is holding you back from exploring the realms of infinite ideas? You have a world of information at your fingertips, don’t take it for granted. We live in the information age. Ignorance is a choice.
2. Work for yourself- Though it’s an uphill battle in this society, we all have the opportunity to work for ourselves. This will provide you with immensely more physical freedom than if you have to trade your time for money with an employer.
3. Awareness - Be aware that you’re not your thoughts, but the consciousness observing the thoughts. Be aware of when you exhibit predictable, programmed responses. Be aware of your emotions, thoughts, habits…etc. Awareness is the key which opens the door to freedom.
4. Don’t identify with a label - Putting yourself in a box is the antithesis of freedom. Osho summed it up eloquently… “Never belong to a crowd; Never belong to a nation; Never belong to a religion; Never belong to a race. Belong to the whole existence. Why limit yourself to small things? When the whole is available.”
6. Let go of fear - Fear, and everything dependent upon it, is bondage. This includes ego, comfort zones, worry, anxiety, regret, shame, guilt, hate, anger, jealousy, insecurity, disempowerment, victimhood…etc. Those all either create, or lead to, some form of enslavement. As John Lennon said, “Love is free, free is love.” Choose love.
Or is my life an endless string of time-stressed busyness?
In the phenomenal book “The Tao of Abundance“, Laurence G. Boldt defines leisure as “activity free of time remembrance.” Essentially, leisure is any experience in which you’re wholeheartedly “lost in the moment.”
We’ve all experienced this state… Hiking a mountain with no concept of “clock time” or a schedule. Long-term travel with no specific agenda, just going with the flow. Diving into creative work and completely losing track of time. At a party, celebrating with kindred spirits, with no concern of past or future. A session of lovemaking when you’re so utterly immersed in the ecstasy of the eternal now.
We instinctively long for these exhilarating reminders of our timeless essence. We chase them, sometimes through unhealthy means, because we don’t “leisure” as frequently as we need to for a deeply fulfilling and enjoyable life.
When was the last time you stopped to fully appreciate the moment? Re-start that practice now. Constantly remind yourself to “be here now.” Bask in the glory of the moment and notice how deeply fulfilling it is.
“The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
When was the last time you did absolutely nothing? And I mean nothing. Not watching TV. Not playing video games. Not snapchatting selfies to Selma the secretary. Seriously, when was the last time you allowed yourself to just BE? Simply “being” is a smirk-inducing oneness with the moment; a merging into the sea of infinite bliss.
“Every moment is the best, that’s enlightenment.” – Eckhart Tolle
We live in a culture that is so frantically busy that we forget to allow ourselves to simply be. No input. No over-stimulation. Just marinating in the peaceful stillness of the moment. We often fail to remember how critical that is for intrinsic fulfillment.
The “time-crunch” we’ve conceded to doesn’t give us enough room to breathe. Because we don’t allow ourselves to ever fully rest (or experience leisure), it severely inhibits our ability to fire on all cylinders. That’s why most people trudge through life in this gray-zone of half-activity, never at ease, yet never at full throttle either. Everything is a balance of the yin and yang. On and off. Activity and rest. Balls to the wall, and balls to the… floor?
The grinding state of constant, compulsive half-action is insidious. It wears you down, while steadily lowering your maximum capacity. It’s burning the candle at both ends.
Let’s take sprinting (which is completely based upon generating maximum speed) as an example. Do sprinters sprint 24/7? Of course not. They have carefully calculated training programs, with rest being equally as important as the actual training. Sprinters also spend the overwhelming majority of their time resting. Even their training sessions, which include short bursts of high intensity sprinting, are intermixed with much longer periods of rest. If an athlete attempted to sprint unceasingly, they would quickly tire, and within minutes be relegated to crawling around the track. But this is how many people try to move through life. In a desperate attempt to keep pushing, they end up at an incessant, exhausting crawl; with no time to rest (so they think), no energy left to move at full speed and no clarity to even question why they’re doing it in the first place.
Most masters in anything are masters in both their craft and leisure. They operate like an on/off switch, with each paradigm sharpened by focused present moment awareness. Look at the greatest martial artists. They are unbelievably calm and peaceful, but once it’s time for action, they are lightning fast and immensely powerful. Without intense rest, there can be no intense action. Without intense action, there can be no intense rest.
Loss of presence disturbs both the restful state and the active state. In the case of the martial artist, thinking about the past or future will inhibit the peace of mind associated with rest. On the other hand, thinking about the past or future while in a match will quickly leave you incapacitated by your opponent. This is the embodiment of leisure through both profound rest and profound activity. When leisure permeates the entire spectrum of your being, you live vibrantly, instead of merely existing.
Tim Ferriss, who is just slightly more productive than the average person (I hope you caught the sarcasm), is semi-famous for alternating between intense activity and intense rest. When he writes, for example, he dives into it with intensive focus for a short block of time, followed by a break. This applies to life’s larger cycles as well. Tim said that he recently took 30 days off from any kind of work. A month of pure leisure and just being. He said it was a deeply revitalizing self-reset, and he came back to his work more focused than ever. Ok, you don’t necessarily have to take 30 days off from everything, but you can apply the same principles to your own unique situation. And speaking of those types of escapades…
Let’s talk about “real leisure.”
Honestly, do you get any real leisure? Moments when you’re so absorbed in the magnificence of the moment that nothing else exists?
As a society, we’re so leisure-starved that even our “time off” lacks leisure. Most people’s vacations are laughably short and desperately rushed, consisting of scrambling to catch flights, rigid schedules, hour-by-hour plans and the impending dread of having to go back to work.
However, one moment in which you truly allow yourself to just be makes it all worth it. This image, which epitomizes the word leisure, comes to mind… Sitting on a beach, soaking in the sunset and listening to the delicate crash of waves on the shore. That is all that exists, nothing else. A single moment experienced as a serendipitous eternity.
And don’t think you have to be on a beach to experience true leisure. That’s just a situation which is highly conducive to the experience of leisure. But literally anything that gets you lost in the moment is leisure. Leisurely experiences can, and do, vary wildly from person-to-person. For some people, solving mathematical equations might be leisure. For others, walking in the woods. For me, writing this right now is leisure. It could be anything. The experience of real leisure just feels right, as if you’ve delightfully surrendered within the warm embrace of your divine essence.
Cherish the now. Leisure is as simple as realizing that this moment is all that exists. Constantly remind yourself to “be here now.” The past and future are only projections of your mind. Fully immerse yourself in the euphoric ocean of eternal now and experience the ecstasy of everlasting rejuvenation.
Here are three sure-fire ways to experience true leisure and get lost in the moment:
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have. Make the NOW the primary focus of your life.” – Eckhart Tolle
Simply being aware that now is all that exists is transformative in and of itself. You will begin to catch yourself thinking about the past or future, inhibiting your experience of the present (all that really exists). With present moment awareness, sunsets suck you into divine bliss, landscapes lull you into luscious lucidity and parties become the climax of your very own movie. Awareness allows you to realize that there is nothing but now, and it is meant to be cherished.
“Time isn’t precious at all, because it is an illusion. What you perceive as precious is not time but the one point that is out of time: the Now. That is precious indeed. The more you are focused on time—past and future—the more you miss the Now, the most precious thing there is.”- Eckhart Tolle
Dive into your passions and experience time melt away. There is a magical quality to being immersed in your passion, whatever it may be. Time and space dissolve, and you’re left in a state of simply being, with the Universe expressing itself through you.
If you don’t know what your passions are… What gives you those kind of feelings described above? What causes you to become lost in the moment?
“Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you.” – Oprah Winfrey
“To play in a childlike way is to let go of self-consciousness, to drop the armor of ego defenses, to give up pretenses and be what we are, plain and simple.” – Laurence G. Boldt
Playing is a primary part of our primal nature. It begets vibrant happiness and helps us cope with the harsh reality so many of us face in day-to-day life.
Play is also essential if you wish to be an optimal being. Not only an expression of love and joy, play cultivates creativity as well. It’s absolutely vital for the development of one’s mental, emotional and physical capacities.
“Play seems to be an essential feature in productive thought.” – Albert Einstein
Yet sadly, play is an activity that we strongly reject as “respectable adults.”
“Especially while at work, we tend to take a serious, nose-to-the-grindstone attitude. We have gotten the notion that to be a “grown-up” is to act stiff and “dignified.” We fear that others will not take us seriously if we allow them to see us acting silly or in a playful manner.” – Laurence G. Boldt
Unchain yourself from the shackles of what others think. Choose love over fear, and express yourself. Life is too short to suppress your unique brilliance.
Play a game. Play a sport. Run, climb, jump. Dance. Tease someone in a loving way. Laugh. Joke around. Be ridiculous.
Leap into the liberating liveliness of leisure.
You don’t need a vacation to experience leisure, nor does everything in your life need to be perfect. All you need to do is “be here now.”
Get lost in the moment.
So I’ll leave you with a question… Do you even leisure, bro?
“What time is it?” My friend asked me in a tone of preoccupied worry. “Now.” I quipped, flashing a frolicsome grin.
I’ve made a lighthearted hobby out of getting people to question reality. It’s good ole paradigm-shifting fun. And one of the most tantalizing topics is the concept of time.
Ah, yes, time. That enigma that clocks measure. That concept constructed by calendars.
Time is merely a means of measuring movement and the procession of events. But, for some reason, our increasingly rigid concept of time is a great stressor upon humanity…
“All negativity is caused by an accumulation of psychological time and denial of the present. Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry – all forms of fear – are caused by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence.” – Eckhart Tolle (The Power of Now)
Disharmony proliferates when we perpetually project our consciousness out of the present, and into the past or future.
Is there any time when it isn’t now? Of course not. Our lives are a streaming continuation of now moments. The past and future only exist in our minds.
“Time isn’t precious at all, because it is an illusion. What you perceive as precious is not time but the one point that is out of time: the Now. That is precious indeed. The more you are focused on time—past and future—the more you miss the Now, the most precious thing there is.” – Eckhart Tolle (The Power of Now)
One thing that both mystics and cutting-edge scientists mutually agree upon, is that our concept of time is, well, an illusion.
This begs the question, is the means by which we measure movement and the procession of events optimal? Or are we doing it all wrong?
Let’s take a look at movement. Everything moves in a cyclical, spiral fashion. Planets revolve around stars. Planets rotate. Stars go through life cycles. Earth has seasons, climate cycles, water cycles…etc. Living creatures have life cycles, with countless micro-cycles embedded within (digestive cycles, circadian cycles, breathing…etc.). You get the point. The defining characteristic of movement in our Universe is cycles.
And if you were to map the procession of these cycles, they would take on a spiral shape. Picture the movement of a galaxy and apply that model to all of the cycles I just mentioned. We also see the spiral’s ubiquitous presence everywhere. These spirals are physical manifestations of the Fibonacci Sequence. Besides galaxies, we observe Fibonacci Spirals (The Golden Spiral) in sea shells, hurricanes, flower petals and in the position of facial features of most animals. (This article provides some more examples.) There are underlying patterns which act as a template from which reality is projected. So it would only make sense to use systems that harmonize with these intrinsic patterns.
Spiral galaxies, or the concentric circles we use to estimate the age of trees, might provide a more harmonious template to measure “time” (movement and the procession of events). The Mayan calendar, based on concentric cycles within cycles, may also shed light on a better way to approach things.
The basis of our system of time is that it takes the Earth’s rotation, as well as the Earth’s revolution around the sun, and relegates it to a measurable structure (days and years). Both of those movements are cyclical, but we’re attempting to measure them linearly. Hmmm…
So why do we measure time in a linear fashion, if everything moves cyclically? This makes linear measurement fundamentally disharmonious. So instead of flowing with the natural rhythm of everything, linear time resists that rhythm, removing us from all that is (the present moment). Measuring time linearly is like driving while looking at a map, instead of the actual road. One more: Measuring time linearly is like determining the score of a basketball game, not by the amount of times the ball goes through the hoop, but by how many steps each team takes.
A blatant example of “time-stress”:
I had a deadline (“dead”… “line” – coincidence?) to hit at work last week, and I could feel stress creeping into my consciousness as a result. I felt off-centered and even noticed a slight inhibition of digestion, all because of my projections into the future (self-created what if’s and worry). I noticed the signs quickly and immediately brought myself into the present moment, alleviating the “time stress” I had imposed upon myself. And as a bonus, I actually got more done by being present.
Whenever you feel yourself being “time-stressed,” ask yourself this question… “What am I doing RIGHT NOW?” Unless you’re getting chased by a grizzly bear, chances are there’s no real danger at this exact moment. You’ll realize that your fear or anxiety is merely a self-created illusion by losing touch with the present moment. That question will snap you back to your natural state of peaceful presence. The present is your place of power. The now is the river of life. Go with the flow. (Note: If you are getting chased by a grizzly bear, there’s no time to worry or over-think. You just act. There’s a difference between danger and fear. Danger is real, fear is a choice.)
Yes, the past can provide lessons. And yes, some things require future planning. But both of those are, ironically, done in the now and enhanced by “being present.” And remember, if you overdo those analyses, you’re missing out on life right now (and resisting all that exists). We all know people who plan like crazy, losing touch with the present to the extent that they don’t even enjoy or appreciate the moment when it (a vacation, party, event…etc.) actually happens. That ain’t livin’.
When driving at night, you only see as far as your headlights reach in each moment, but you eventually make it to your destination. Embracing the perpetual present moment allows you to effectively navigate the roads of life.
Fully immerse yourself in the present. Be here now.
Things to think about:
The most innovative and successful companies now focus on how much their employees actually accomplish, instead of just the sheer amount of hours employees work (which doesn’t necessarily equate to productivity).
Is it possible to hold any fear, anxiety, worry or guilt if you’re completely absorbed in the moment?
Athletes actually slow down time during high pressure moments, like a game-winning kick, hit, or shot. “Time” is malleable according to our state of consciousness.
According to Einstein’s theory of relativity, the faster you move, the slower time progresses. And an object moving at the speed of light will experience time at a standstill (the eternal now?).
You can cross the imaginary International Date Line and go into yesterday or tomorrow, depending on which direction you’re traveling.
The Gregorian calendar differs from the solar year by 26 seconds per year. By the year 4909, the Gregorian calendar will be a full day ahead of the solar year.
In England, the Gregorian Calendar was implemented by an act of Parliament which advanced the calendar overnight from September 2 to September 14, 1752.
Time is a totally real, natural phenomenon, right? (Wink, wink)
So, living up to what I wrote about in my last post, I released a new book on Amazon Kindle! It’s called “11 Steps to Become an Idea Machine.” This book is seriously life-changing for anyone, especially if you’re someone who wants to transcend mediocrity and make an impact on the world.
I included the book description, with some snippets, below. If the content resonates with you, click the Amazon link HERE to get your hands on it.
– Stevie P
Everything made manifest by humanity begins as an idea…
The airplane once only existed as an image in someone’s imagination; then eventually materialized in the physical world.
The same applies to the entire spectrum of human creativity and invention. From the wheel to paintings; from clothing to philosophies; from nuclear bombs to Pokemon. They all began as an idea.
Ideas serve as the building blocks from which we create reality.
Ideas are prodigiously powerful. They exist beyond time and space. Once shared, a potent idea has the ability to reshape reality as we know it. Anything and everything of the material realm is subject to the dominion of underlying ideas. 11 Steps to Become an Idea Machine provides you with a template to leverage the strength of ideas, empowering you to steer your life in whichever direction you choose.
What is an idea machine?
An idea machine is an individual with the ability to come up with ideas anytime, anywhere and under any circumstances. An idea machine embodies confident creativity. An idea machine is dynamic, open-minded and impeccably clever. An idea machine adds ever-increasing value to both themselves and those around them. An idea machine is remarkably generous, as hoarding ideas only blocks one’s ability to receive more.
This book shows you, step-by-step, how to become an idea machine. Each step concludes with a challenge to help you integrate the information presented. In addition, there is a consolidated list of challenges, which serve as a simple guide for implement the steps into your daily life.
Ideas and Action…
There is a world of difference between the average person with one great idea who fears to pursue it, and the idea machine who chooses, out of thousands of ideas, a few to bring to fruition. The average person is stagnant, while the idea machine is dynamic. The average person is afraid to take action, while the idea machine takes action when he or she chooses to.
If you come up with an idea you wish to pursue, then yes, you need to execute it. Action is absolutely necessary in this case (which is detailed in the bonus chapter). There is no question about that. But as you will discover, idea generation, in and of itself, comes with a plethora of pleasantly surprising benefits.
Imagine what it’s like to always have access to an infinitely abundant stream of fresh ideas. Can you say wizardry?
Do you want to be more creative than most people can fathom? Do you want to always be the most interesting person in the room? Do you want to provide immense value to others? Do you want to have more opportunities? Do you want to be empowered and shape your own destiny? Do you want to maximize your life in every way?
Taking a step back a few days ago, I found myself muttering, “Now I know how 2pac felt.”
I’m in the midst of the most productive weeks of my life. By a long shot. And to be honest, I almost feel like a superhero with newly attained powers; sure-footed yet surprised, and impressed to the point of slight skepticism regarding the sudden jump in abilities.
I have a burning desire to express as much as I possibly can, blended with a deep-seated sense of urgency to create, create, create. Then create some more.
Due to a deluge of techniques and lifestyle hacks I’ve employed, inspiration is hitting like a young Mike Tyson and creation has transformed from a “should” to a “must.” It’s an extended version of the “flow state” that so many artists talk about. Something that the late, great Tupac Shakur was intimately familiar with.
The King of Content
2pac had an insane work ethic, to the point of it becoming a form of modern mythology. The amount of material he produced in his short life is absolutely stunning. He would write and record ravenously, diving into sessions of intense focus like he wouldn’t live to see tomorrow (which eventually came to fruition, as it does for all of us).
In contemplating what drove ‘Pac to be a such a creation machine, I was able to distill it into three key points…
1. Sense of purpose
2pac had so much to share with the world. He was immensely intent on sparking people’s brains and instigating positive change in the world. This is why he touched on such a multitude of topics and dabbled in almost every form of artistic expression.
This quote encapsulates his innate sense of purpose…
“I’m not saying I’m gonna change the world, but I guarantee that I will spark the brain that will change the world.” – Tupac Shakur
If you have an intrinsic sense of purpose, absolutely nothing stands between you and what you wish to accomplish. When you live for something greater than yourself, there is no such thing as being tired. There are no complaints. The phrase “I can’t” doesn’t exist.
Purpose is what fuels that burning desire that exists deep within all of us.
2. Death as motivation (A deep-seated sense of urgency)
2pac put in work like his demise was imminent (even well before it really was).
We’re not promised tomorrow. Death is the only certainty in life. Most people mentally comprehend this, but they live in denial of this fact. Truly knowing and feeling it on a deep level is what drives that kind of motivation that 2pac and many other great creators had.
If you were to die right now, would you be satisfied with what you did here on Earth? Ask yourself that.
“The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.” – Mark Twain
With death as motivation, there is no time to waste, there is no time to procrastinate, only time to fully express, from the depths of your being, what you truly need to do.
Create, create, create. Express the brilliant wisdom of your heart. Because you never know when you’re going to withdraw from your physical vessel…
“Dream as if you’ll live forever. Live as if you’ll die today.” – James Dean
3. Sticking to “systems.”
Building off of the last two points, which are more like states of consciousness, you must consistently take action to create at a high level. Action is the currency of our reality. It is what you must exchange in order to achieve anything.
The most effective method for continuous creation is developing systems. What a system is, is a regular routine with a purpose. As an example, here’s what I did to write every book of mine… I focused on doing something every day, no matter how small. Some days I got in the zone and wrote pages upon pages. Other days I edited one sentence (true story). I just focused on doing at least something every day, and before I knew it, I had a finished product. This technique is infinitely more effective than just saying “I want to write a book.” Most new years resolutions (and goals in general) fail because people merely dream of a goal, without implementing a system or routine to propel themselves in the right direction.
2pac didn’t have a fancy, detailed system. His system was simple. He just wrote and recorded every single day. That’s it. He had a vision and a purpose which he executed by hurtling headlong into daily action. At one point, he was recording as much as 3 to 4 songs a day. Now that’s impressive.
It seems obvious, but most people severely underestimate the power of consistent action. Relentlessly pursuing progress and persistently taking action results in gargantuan growth over time.
“Daily, consistent, focused, faithful expectation raises the miracle power of achieving your dreams.” -John Di Lemme
A note on time management:
You might say “I don’t have the time to create.” Which is a bullshit, disempowered excuse. If you incorporate the above techniques, you will make time. As Gandhi once said, “Actions dictate where priorities lie.”
With a higher purpose, a deep sense of urgency, and a system to take consistent action, you too have the capacity to channel your inner 2pac and become a ravenous creator.
We all have brilliantly unique gifts to share with the world. The greatest tragedy is dying with yours inside.
Your life is inconceivably meaningful. You arrived on Earth for a purpose. What that purpose is, you have to uncover (and create) yourself. It’s an epic quest from cradle to grave, and that’s what makes life worth living.
There is a deep yearning within everyone for that deep-seated sense of purpose. When people know what it is, they become an unstoppable force. Absolutely nothing can stand between them and the manifestation of their destiny.
How do you reveal your life’s purpose? I can’t tell you exactly how, as it’s incredibly distinct from person-to-person, but I can provide you with the tools for you to guide yourself along your journey. And your purpose isn’t static either. It may very well change and evolve throughout the course of your life. Heraclitus hit the nail on the head when he said “No man steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”
Ask… And you shall receive…
Here are 15 questions to ask yourself, which will set you in the direction of your life’s purpose:
1. What gives me energy?
Activities that align with your purpose will energize you. On the other hand, activities that don’t resonate with your essence will drain you. Be aware and use your energy level as a guide.
2. What excites me?
This is a better question than the lukewarm “What am I passionate about?” Excitement is easily discernible for anyone. And the funny thing is that you find out what you’re passionate about simply by being mindful of what excites you.
“The question you should be asking isn’t, “What do I want?” or “What are my goals?” but “What would excite me?” – Tim Ferriss
3. What kind of ideas come to me in the shower?
The shower is probably the most relaxing part of your day-to-day life. Inspiration strikes when you’re relaxed, as that’s when you’re most receptive. So be aware of what kind of inspiration comes to you while you’re gettin’ so fresh and so clean.
4. What kind of things do people always ask me about?
What kind of advice do others seek from you? This is indicative of the value you can potentially provide to the world at large.
5. What kind of conversations do I have with those closest to me?
What subject matter do you immerse yourself in with loved ones? What information do you share with the people you care about most? What do you talk about when you’re being your true self?
6. What do I do with my free time?
Actions dictate where priorities lie.
7. What topics do I regularly read about?
An obvious way to shine light on your biggest interests.
8. What recurring dreams do I have?
The themes of your dreams will reveal a lot about your subconsciousness. Search the meaning of dreams to get a better grasp on the esoteric wisdom being conveyed.
9. During which experiences in my life have I felt the most alive?
A different spin on following your excitement.
10. What unique interests, or abilities, did I have as a young child?
If your memory is fuzzy, ask your parents for more clarity. This question will reveal a lot about your inherent abilities and your interests prior to societal conditioning.
11. What would I be doing if money were no object?
12. What would I be doing if I absolutely, 100%, did not care about what other people think?
Like the question about money, it’s important to ask yourself what you would be doing if there were no limitations. If you were completely free, what would you do?
13. What is on my bucket list?
What is most important to you? What things, when achieved, will create that deep sense of fulfillment within you? These will most certainly guide you toward your purpose.
14. What topics can I blend together to create my own unique niche?
How can you commix multiple subjects to create your own unique mosaic of life? A great example that James Altucher used was someone who loves both basketball and statistics. If they don’t make it to the NBA (which will be the vast majority of people), they can blend their interests of basketball and statistics to create their own unique amalgamation of mastery.
15. If I were to write a short (1-2 sentence) “About Me”, describing the ideal version of myself, what would it be?
I’ve been asking myself these questions repeatedly for some time now. What have they revealed so far? Well, all signs point to writing and poetry being a major part of my life purpose (for this chapter of my life, at least). Why? Because I’m fascinated by the intricacies of the English language. I also have a sick obsession with super-lyrical hip-hop (like this) and a burning desire to read, like all of the books in the world are about to get the Library of Alexandria treatment. Plus, the act of writing itself excites me. That’s why I’m able to practice every day, sparking new ideas and catalyzing continuous improvement. Combine that with my vast array of additional interests (health, fitness, spirituality, meditation, philosophy, psychology, self-improvement, history, lifehacking, hiking, travel and cooking, to name a few) and I have a staggering stockpile of raw material to distill into digestible poetry and prose. I figured out that everything I enjoy “absorbing” contributes to the skill of writing. So that’s why I do what I do.
Consistently ask yourself these revelatory questions and you will uncover your life purpose, as well as help bring it to fruition.
With more power than your mind conceives You came here for a reason You are a healer, believe Earth is calling for a new season Instate this miraculous age Create a spectacular page In the book of love and life Lightheartedly rise above the strife For your essence is essential Please, step into your true potential